Saturday, September 22, 2007

It's Over

I pretty much ended things today with the Date. He had been acting different all week while I have been out of town and giving me the run around so I told him to take a flying leap, but not in so many words. I am not sure what was going on with him, but he was acting secretive about what he was doing in the evenings and acting like I was imposing when I tried to text him. Because he was busy. The last straw was when he turned his cell phone off on Friday night at 'date' time. To me, the only reason that he would do that is if he was out with another female.

The other thing that I have thought about this week was that this was not some guy that I would bring home to the parents or the rest of my family. He talked about getting into fights quite a bit during the first few dates.

I am a bit sad, but I know that this will pass. I think it's just hard not knowing what changed for him. But I probably won't ever really know what happened.

Anyway, I have turned the matching back on in the eHarmony website. I am getting matches again and we will see what happens. Either way, it will mean more 'me' time and more time to quilt! It's a win-win situation!

4 comments:

Cindy (aka Peony the House Elf) said...

Sorry to hear about the DATE but if he's secretive and moody it's probably for the better. There is someone out there for you and one of these days when you least expect it there he'll be and he'll be the one to take home to meet your family.

teresa said...

I think you did the right thing, this guy doesn't sound like he's the one for you, and like cindy said the right guy is out there just waiting for you.

Michelle said...

I'm sorry to hear about the DATE too, but better to discover this now, than later. Jill, when you feel like you have made a best friend with a guy, and you can talk to him about anything, and you can share every emotion with him, and you know that he will be there to listen and support you no matter what....then you know that you have found the right guy. Don't settle for one who thinks he will boss you around, or control you. A relationship is an equal partnership, and you will know when you have found him. In the meantime, enjoy YOU. Don't sacrifice who you are for anyone.
Michelle

Jen said...

I'm sure you're feeling better already. Probably relieved!! If he isn't someone you'd let meet your family then you've definitey got to move on, sooner than later.